I'm gonna trust that most of the people active here have the presence of mind to not tap the glass and that the people in question are just braindead fans.
I don't think anyone who will read this are the ones who need to hear it, but I'll say it anyway for any lurkers or people who stumble upon this thread: Don't fucking question the talents, anyone that regularly interacts with the talents, or anyone you suspect may be close to the talent or a talent on their alt. If they won't say it outright on their alt, they're really not going to tell some chucklefuck random. It's been mentioned before, but also don't just follow random people mentioned here if they don't have some sort of presence because they will take note of that, too.
I'm also going to say that most of the girls are averse to anything they think resembles 4chan. They will not be able to tell the difference between 4chan and this place or KF, nor will they care about the difference. Again, do not try to press them for info but they will especially ignore you if you have any trail leading back here.