Sharing DMs with former talents is stupid, and a really bad look for their existing talents. Admitting to making up bullshit reasons why talents would graduate instead of just letting them graduate for vague reasons is stupid, and will cast any other future graduation circumstances in doubt.
It does seem like Lorelai/Stabi's behavior was paranoid and out of line, though. She should not have had full control over her accounts, but since she did for whatever reason, she needed to cooperate with the agency and give them the access they needed to do their jobs and make both of them money.
Also, Project F's wording doesn't inspire confidence in their own estimation of their future. "Our agency's existence going forward?" "We leave our fate in the hands of our cherished viewers?" Damn. Last one out the door, please cut the lights.
Definitely going to talk about this on Monday.