I'd say there the asian woman's ideal man isn't necessarily effeminate.. it's more pale-skin lean model-types with long hair and lean muscles hidden underneath instead of the dad-bods and bulky muscles that's more sexy in the US.Also I will never understand a girl wanting a man more effeminate than themselves. Just be a fucking lesbian, it's honestly a more respectable relationship at that point.
It's funny tying this while watching Axel's 3D debut lol