But people make fun of you for being gay, for politisperging at random autistic women on the internet, for bringing up your mom on your first date with your oshi. If we were a hivemind, we'd stop at calling you a fag. And any vtuber you admit to watching gets a viewership boost because there's at least four tards watching her every stream, waiting for her to ownzone you so they can add another reason to the list.
By applying the bikecuck theorem, this generates a net positive in happiness in the world, therefore, you just need to take it. :^)