TND.
There, fixed it for you chief.No Nolan, it's not "because it's you". This isn't fucking Nijisanji*. This isn't a clique of people picking on you for the sake of bullying.
Waah Wahh, does the baby need a bottle?[...] I just feel lonely
In what kind of bizarro world does using an alt account turn you into a liar or a fake? This is some next level delusion. You sure you are not using the same name everywhere in the slim hope of getting some e-fame?Then I'd have to lie and be fake. And that's the last thing I want to be.
this just applies to places I am already known and banned from. I was only talking about using an alt on servers I'm banned from. And posting with that alt on channels and pretending to be a different person.Waah Wahh, does the baby need a bottle?
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In what kind of bizarro world does using an alt account turn you into a liar or a fake? This is some next level delusion. You sure you are not using the same name everywhere in the slim hope of getting some e-fame?
To an extent, I can understand. When I first went ~online~ in the magical time of the early oughts, I said some cringe shit that I'm exceedingly happy has since disappeared from the internet.
When you're young and don't have meaningful social ties offline, the internet can be a drug that undoes whatever passes for the socialisation you've had.
Thing is, most people, when called out on their cringe shit, eventually change. Not instantly, of course. It's a gradual change, not the flick of a switch. It takes years and years and in truth, never actually stops.
There'll still be cringe shit, too. Sometimes it's harmless, stuff you can look back on and laugh. Sometimes it'll be shit you dearly wish you could go back in time to change. That kind of cringe is usually dealt with by never mentioning it again.
But by and large, people get better over time. They understand why they're being called out and adjust accordingly.
Early Nolan? No problem. Early twenties turbo autist being cringe on the internet? Common as dirt.
What everyone has issues with is that current Nolan has inexplicably gotten worse.
Nobody expects an early twenties turbo autist to become a wise male hag to shoot the shit with after a year or two.
But people generally expect an early twenties turbo autist to not actively regress.
I mean, to be honest that's how it should be, if there's no way to prevent minors from joining the bigger +18 communities common in the vtuber fandom the least admins and jannies can do is to heavily moderate them.The ones dominated by girls/minors are notorious for making their server a "positive community center" by all accounts because none want to deal with controversy or drama that will cloud their perception of their perfect oshi.
Discord is more harmful to children (and adults) than almost any other site I've been on, there's literal fucking people who go around servers looking for children to befriend and then lead back to their own dens of grooming, there isn't a more child unfriendly site in the whole internet. And this isn't even mentioning the whole turning people into degenerate retards thing that it also does.I mean, to be honest that's how it should be, if there's no way to prevent minors from joining the bigger +18 communities common in the vtuber fandom the least admins and jannies can do is to heavily moderate them.
That's one of the reason why I don't really interact outside of art channels in the nijicords, when you face a retard you never know if they're just a lost teen learning the ropes or a Nolan
I agree to some extent, to be honest, it's an ironclad rule that works to maintain a server especially if you're manning one with huge members count and there's nothing wrong to enforce it at some point to keep stupid people from sperging randomly. What I hate though is the nature of hugbox-feels they have will have them unable to be critical, especially towards their oshi, that's why you don't see them arguing about Vesper's xcom saga or any other shit that isn't about "having fun".I mean, to be honest that's how it should be, if there's no way to prevent minors from joining the bigger +18 communities common in the vtuber fandom the least admins and jannies can do is to heavily moderate them.
That's one of the reason why I don't really interact outside of art channels in the nijicords, when you face a retard you never know if they're just a lost teen learning the ropes or a Nolan
Is there a reason you can't just make alts?
We're talking about someone whose idea of making alts is:I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure when you get banned from a Discord server, it also bans your IP. And I doubt Nolan has the capacity for using VPNs.
A bit tangental, but this is something I particularly dislike about the modern internet, in that the current era of adult content has no precedent in previous generations so I feel like parents underestimate how much of a risk it actually poses.Also minors will always try to find ways into degenerate shit eventually, what they need is someone who can explain to them why stuff is degenerate, not straight up banning any talks about it
You sure about that? You're here, afterall.it at least didn't cause me any major harm
(relatively)You sure about that? You're here, afterall.
Nolan, Imma be real with you, like actual real for a bit. I get that you're lonely, and that sucks, I seriously hope you can find some proper camaraderie somewhere at some point in you life. I just don't think places like TVA, KF or fancords are the place to do it.I just feel lonely
Everybody lies and fakes shit, it's part of the social game and you gotta learn to play it if you want to be a part of it. I can guarantee that plenty of TVA members (if not most) act completely different in other places than how they do here.Then I'd have to lie and be fake. And that's the last thing I want to be.
I've had my fair share of laughs at your expense, but people aren't blaming you for anything you haven't done.I get it
you want to blame me for everything bad that happens to me because it's fun
Just because Discord is a grooming ground for awful shit doesn't mean it's always bad (I'm a member of many discord servers that have nothing shady going on, the worst is casual racism and loot-horny nerds getting assmad at each other).I guess it's because I expected you guys wouldn't side with the Discord. so when you did it was a big loop to me
and I connected that with people calling me a lolcow and stuff like that. I guess I didn't know you guys like I thought I did
Nolan, I think you're harmless despite being a little retarded in a way that's almost extinct. I genuinely think that you'll have a difficult time if you continue trying to fill the void with superficial things, not to mention acting out for attention here and on the homelands (be it conscious or not). I understand that there's things making it more difficult for you, but I implore you to beseech people you can have actual platonic relationships with, and maybe like smaller, more personal groups you can be a part of.I guess it's just, Discord is my main social media and I want a community I can interact with people as we live chat in. But the only Discords left are these hyperstrict places that ban you for nothing. And no one is willing to give me a second chance. I just desperately want someway to return to how it used to be, at least somewhat. I just feel lonely