IF you already know someone is going to call you an idiot and fight you over you assuming they think you aren't worth the effort, it might just be possible they don't see you the way you ASSUME they see you. And therefore that assumpion is dumb. People who tend to come back and try to help you deal with your issues are typically not going to just wanna put in extra effort to hang out as a joke. They can just hang out with other people.
"Hey let's hang out, I'm gonna drive for a few hours or whatever to meet you."
Brainworms: Wow this person must really want nothing to do with me and find me annoying or something.
Woman pls. They're trying because they want to, stop trying to LET retards convince you that it's normal to tell people who care to fuck off.