I don't miss getting banned from Battlefield 2 servers for being too good, then having to go make accounts on some gay ass clan website to argue with protojannies to get unbanned. And in general, while I did enjoy the social aspect of mid 2000s MMOs, you can't bring that back, it'd never work. The people playing videogames, especially MMOs are different now. And as much as "asocial multiplayer" is an oxymoron, I'm kinda glad that a lot of games go that way, because I doubt I'd be playing anything multiplayer these days if I was forced into talking to and cooperating with a bunch of retarded B*rger zoomers and assorted Euros who refuse to speak English.
Playing WoW when I was 10, joining a guild because sure, why not, and then reading random British women trauma dump in guild chat for hours has probably done more damage to my psyche than years of art school and life in the Balkans, but y'know, it really was better times. The drama was better back then too, because you'd get more of the stuff you listed. Girl shows up in clan, instantly gets high up position, clan implodes because she fucked the leader or some higher up. Guy joins, does a 6 month deep cover op to get in good graces with the leader, then empties out the bank before switching servers or shit like that. EVE Online corps imploding and causing civil wars because diplomatic talks broke down because the leaders argued over who gets rights to mine the fucking moons. Shit like that. Nowadays it's like "BIG DRAMA IN XYZ COMMUNITY", and you look into it, and it just turns out someone was a pedophile nine times out of ten.