You could write a multi-page essay explaining the origins of the term, (((who))) created it/the significance of that fact, and go step by step in explaining how America was never a 'melting pot' with all the associated historical evidence, citations, and documented examples of the current historical revisionism at play due to certain subversive elements in society attempting to push an agenda.
This is how you prove your love to her, Resticles - write an entire paper about politishit just to beat her at an argument. She'd definitely love it.