- The document describes the author's experience of being in an abusive relationship when they were 19 years old. The abuser used manipulation, emotional blackmail, and isolation to control the author.
- The abuser would constantly degrade, insult, and lie to the author. He prevented the author from leaving by threatening suicide and blaming the author.
- The abuser isolated the author from their family and friends, making the author fully dependent on him. He controlled every aspect of the author's life.
- The author was sexually assaulted at an airport while traveling to see the abuser, who responded with only a sad face and no support or advice.
- The abuser pressured the author into non-consensual sexual acts, threatening to cheat or harm himself if the author refused.
- The abuser used the author's dyslexia diagnosis against them, gaslighting and belittling them for it.
- The abuser reacted with homophobia and emotional abuse when the author expressed interest in LGBTQ+ content.
- The abuser manipulated the author into a rushed, unwanted marriage in order to exploit the military benefits, further trapping the author.
- After the abuse, the author suffered from depression, anxiety, and agoraphobia, and now finds solace in creative hobbies like art, music, and gaming.
- The author emphasizes the importance of not judging others based on their experiences and relationships, and instead making judgments on one's own terms.