The female sex pests tend to go to much further extremes, because they meet much less resistance along the way. If a male streamer demanded pussy pics to talk to him on Discord then everyone on his friends list would be a career-ending "power dynamics" callout post waiting to happen, but even in those reddit posts the worst responses to Gumpai doing it to male viewers amount to "what the fuck, that's crazy" and "that sounds like a honeypot". She'll bounce back just fine, especially if the boyfriend dips. All she needs to do is show a bit more of herself to entice them.