People trying to justify this cuck shit is fucking frustrating.
If you have a kid all this degenerate shit needs to stop, a kid needs normal parental figures for a stable upbringing, no creepy uncle who fucks their mother, no xe/xir genderfuck larper parent, not having a different stepfather every month, just a normal, consistent household.
If you put getting off to weird shit above your kid's wellbeing you should frankly just kill yourself.