In most cases I'd understand where she's coming from about wanting to be able to understand when she's doing something wrong, but the problem is a solid 95% plus of the criticism she gets is from seething faggots who should kill themselves, rather than people genuinely being constructive and/or looking out for her. It's useful to become desensitised to melodramatic bullshit so it becomes easier to filter it out.
I know it sounds groom-y to say I'd rather her just read comments from a select handful of people here rather than her wider audience, but I really wish she didn't let random schizos one-guy her into paranoia.