I was technically "out" for like, 3 yearsi think, I dated a femboy (actually typed the word that time) for like a year, it was the closest I have ever come to marrying another person, but he was an addict and I was 5 years younger, yes I know that sounds totally fucking insane, but I swear despite being a worse Alcoholic then I could ever hope to be and a recovering meth addict, he looked like a woman (despite never taking HRT) and younger then men despite being 6 years older when we dated (I was 23 at the time)
To add to the "technically" part, I stopped taking my SSRI like, year and a half a ago, and within a week I stopped feeling attracted to men (generally) and told my family I "wasn't a F@g anymore" and what was almost certainly a manic rant, idk, I definitely have not felt any affection to a man that wasn't 300% a turbo bottom since then, so i think there is probably something to that. Don't take/give people you give a shit about SSRI's