Regarding IRyS addressing the collab; I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed, and I'm not even disappointed in what her response was, I'm just disappointed that she responded with a genuine explanation.
The only proper response (besides ignoring them) is to tell them to shut up, and then if they want to come crawling back after they realize the collab was a nothing burger, then they can, but they should most certainly be made to feel like idiots about it instead of being coddled.