I think it's ironic that the people who will say "don't approach women at cons" or "don't ask out girls at anime/comic con" and then do or at least excuse stuff like con orgies. Like don't me wrong, asking out girls at cons is cringe and dangerous given a lot of the girls who go to cons will react to a guy looking at her, the same Jessica Fernandez reacted to that one guy who looked at her for one millisecond, but it seems inconsistent to condemn nerds asking out nerdettes and take zero issue with orgies being arranged.