The question to be asked is "why does she feel the need to force a friendship with Pippa?"
Normally when actually trying to befriend someone the focus is on making them comfortable, but asking questions through DM's the way she did is not how you do that. Could just be shit social skills but the overall vibe I picked up was Pippa gave up on being nice when she started to feel the energy shift from friendly to "friendly".
I feel like such a woman picking this apart as much as I am.