This is my life. My wife makes very good money, I was making struggle bus money, and we were both going insane trying to keep the house and yard taken care of. Totaling up the costs of maid service/lawn care/food delivery/etc, it was 90% of what my post-tax income was. Now I do all of the cooking, cleaning, yardwork, and so forth, run side hustles (I've got a welder, a machine shop, and a wood shop. If I can't fix or fabricate it, I probably just don't have proper prints), and we both have so much more energy because we're not both trying to cram all of the housework into the little time we had outside of 50+ hour work weeks and at least 90 minutes of commuting a day.
Ironically, it's only men who keep telling me to get a "real" job. Every time a woman hears about our arrangement, she asks my wife if she'll share me. Red Green had it right, it's good to be handy.