The best way to flirt with your average woman is to not flirt at all. This will mindbreak the female as the idea that a man isn't trying to vy for their attention or bend over backwards for a crumb of affirmation will send them into a spiral where they question their worth as a woman and then in turn, will begin to crave the validation herself to ensure there's nothing wrong with her. All you have to do is be prepared to pick up the shattered girlpieces when she breaks and ensure her that she's good enough and voila, you have a loyal, emotionally enslaved woman at your beck and call!