It's what matriarchal societies get you.
"Men" who want to be disciplined by women into adulthood. And as always with Certain People, a natural and divine thing that's healthy gets degraded. Compare the righteous and proper universal love of a fit, athletic female form such as a Greek statue of Artemis to its shadow opposite, the "muscle mommy" surrounded by redditroons. Family size is made into "sharing size".