Thank you for your continued support.
I am sorry for the personal trouble that I have caused you.
I would also like to apologize again for having to inform you all in this manner.
As has already been reported, I entered into marriage with Mr. Mafumafu in 2021, and we divorced in 2022.
As a distributor, I am bound by various ties to my profession, and as a result, I have had to lie to all of you.
I am truly sorry to all of you who have supported me.
I also thought that the matter of this disturbance was a personal matter between me and him, and that I should not disclose to the public what had happened between us, considering his privacy and so on.
However, he has made so many one-sided arguments public that I feel compelled to mention them.
We plan to clarify the details in a lawsuit, etc., but I have decided to make this statement public in the hope that it will at least convey what needs to be conveyed to you.
About the two-timing
I did not have a two-timing relationship with Mr. B while I was married to him.
I met Mr. B once before our marriage, but we never had a so-called date, nor have we seen each other since then. Of course, I have never had a sexual relationship with Mr. B. This is something I can confirm with Mr. B, and I think he knows about it.
We have received comments that the exchange of LINEs was public and that the contents of the exchanges should have led to suspicion of cheating, and we regret that.
However, the messages were sent in a casual and joking manner, and as stated above, I have not even met Mr. B once after our marriage.
About our married life
It is true that during our marriage, I suspected him of cheating on me and questioned him. I am sorry if that had driven him away, but it is not my perception that I had been harassing him or constraining him persistently.
It is also my perception that the divorce settlement has been finalized. The doctor who was in charge of the divorce discussions at the time will also provide information and cooperation to the lawyer who is currently in charge of the trial with him, including the timeline and events in the upcoming trial.
Also, since the case is in litigation, I will not go into details, but I had reasonable grounds to suspect that he was cheating on me. I did not hire a detective, so I have no objective evidence, so I cannot say for sure. But I also would not suspect him in the dark without any reason.
In such a situation, he also suspected me of cheating on him, and I think both of us were in a state where we could not fully trust each other.
He also forbade me from contacting other men, and we agreed to tell each other in advance when we were going to contact each other.
...Regarding the divorce agreement.
In the delivery, he made a statement to the effect that I had initially requested money in the divorce, but that the request for money ceased after my relationship with Mr. B came to light, which is not true.
First of all, my financial claims against him were based on the grounds of moral harassment and a too unilateral request for divorce. I will refrain from writing about this point in detail here because of the possibility of defamation and other issues that may arise. In addition, I did not mention the affair because I was advised by my lawyer to refrain from making allegations because there was no objective evidence and it was only an allegation.
When I discussed him with my relatives, they became angry and published my correspondence with them, which could have violated his rights, so after discussing the matter with my lawyer, we decided to divorce, with no financial exchange on either side.
. regarding the slander against him.
It is true that I have made several posts about him. It is also true that he has filed a lawsuit against me for it. I am very sorry about this. At that time, my contract with the firm was terminated, and he asked me for a divorce at that time. I was mentally trapped for a while after that, and after the divorce, I posted my thoughts and feelings on the Internet. I am truly sorry.
However, my lawyer told me not to mention much about the lawsuit, so I won't go into details, but many of those posts would not even be rated as illegal in my lawyer's opinion.
I also acknowledged that I had made the postings myself, apologized to him and through my lawyer, and negotiated a settlement with him.
However, he presented me with the following conditions: 1) I must suspend all activities under the name of all distributors, 2) I must not use SNS, 3) I must issue a statement of what he demanded, and 4) I must pay him 1 million yen in compensation.
At the time, my contract with the firm was terminated and I was anxious about my livelihood, so I was unable to accept his proposal, and since a settlement could not be achieved, I decided to file a lawsuit.
The lawsuit was full of his one-sided and factually incorrect statements, including his familiarity with me, which were not directly related to the post in question, and there were many harsh expressions, and my lawyer told me, "This is too much. I was also given the opinion that "this is tantamount to a personal attack that unnecessarily humiliates me through a lawsuit," so I filed a countersuit against him and then submitted a complaint to the police, which was accepted.
. regarding my former dating partner and false distribution.
He has stated in his e-mail that he has been spreading false information that I was sexually assaulted and impregnated in relation to my ex-boyfriend.
However, none of this is true. I think this is too terrible a statement.
On the contrary, my former dating partner, a composer, discovered that he was living with another woman while he was in a relationship with me, and I was the one who was victimized.
. regarding pets.
He made a statement in his delivery to the effect that I was giving my cat murky, dirty water to drink, which is not true.
I took good care of my cat. The pictures that he said he took were supposedly of the water after I left the house. As any pet owner will know, if you give water and the cat drinks that water and a little time passes, the water becomes cloudy with the cat's saliva and body hair. The water was changed frequently.
Also, there is no way they would give an explanation that makes no sense, such as if the water was not cloudy, the cat would not drink it.
Also, there is a misunderstanding about the pet remains being left behind with the garbage.
First of all, the pet remains are the remains of a hamster, not a cat. I took good care of her, so when she died, I asked a burial service to cremate her and properly store her remains as her remains.
However, in the flurry of having to move in the wake of my divorce, I left the remains at his house. Therefore, I asked my lawyer to tell him to return the remains to me, but they have not been returned to me to this day.
...Finally.
We are currently taking both civil and criminal action against him. In addition, his statement and delivery this time were too one-sided, and after consulting with my lawyer, we have decided to take both civil and criminal action against him as well, although we are truly unwilling to do so.
I did not want to get into this kind of dispute with the person to whom I once made a lifelong commitment. I am fully aware that I am at fault for the postings I made against him.
However, it is really painful to see that in the lawsuit, he claims factual allegations that are not directly related to the post in question, and that he ignores all of my rebuttals and arguments that I have submitted in the lawsuit.
I am very sorry that I, who am in a position to make you smile, have caused you to be disturbed by such an unflattering private matter.
Please note that this is a private matter. I do not wish any slander to be made against him in connection with this matter, so please refrain from such actions.
In addition, in light of the current turmoil, there have been a lot of slanderous posts against me that have gone too far. I will continue to take legal action against such postings.
I will continue my activities as a distributor, and I will do my best to bring smiles to everyone's faces despite the difficult situation.
