Mere mortals can't understand those who ascend our astral plane like she has.
Let me tell you a quick story.
In the early 00's, I played an old multiplayer space action game called Freelancer. I met exactly one certified vagina-owner during that time. She joined a server I played for about three months. During every single day of those three months, she played a minimum of three hours. Those days came to be known as 'no fly days' for anyone not part of her faction, because she could single-handedly beat an entire clan of 4-5 other players at once. Then one day, after utterly obliterating everyone with barely a comment, she just moved on to another server.
Since that day, it has been forever burned into my brain that while 99.9% of woman gamers might routinely struggle to remember how many fingers they have, there lurks an underappreciated 00.1% will make your autism look like an egregiously optimistic misdiagnosis by comparison. Kaela gives me those vibes. Very strongly.