Of course the people who gave you money are going to care. If you pretend like you're a single depressed lonely woman to attract single depressed lonely guys and THEN pretend to get close to them and give them companionship in a similar way a girlfriend would, of course they're going to be angry when it's revealed you had a boyfriend all along. You're basically conning lonely guys into giving you money.
I think people are dumb, in general, to get scammed, but you can't always just blame the victim for being stupid. I also wish these simps would stop enabling e-girl behavior, as well.