EA is notoriously shit for handling lag. You also have a very small minority of people trying to forcefully join their lobbies since neither of them know how to use common sense and hide/private their lobby. Think of it as the world's tiniest ddos on their lobbies, since EA's setup is P2P.LMAO, Calli can't even get Phastmo to stream properly. I can't tell if she's legit shit at streaming or just has completely bad luck at this point.