I'm glad I'm not the only one who's noticed this lately. This weird modern social dynamic's demonised normal heterosexual male behaviour so much that normal "Stacey has a nice arse, I would" lad banter is ~problematic~ while weak, submissive "beat me up mommy" shit is normal and actively encouraged.
If you're actually into that shit then whatever, but cut the performative shit, seeing "men" degrade themselves like that publicly is embarrassing.