I mean yeah for all it's worth yaoi is all about passion and you can clearly see that on fujoshis and fudanshis in the wild but I like me some romance that can make me warm insideMy whole career is getting bullied for a living. You learn to dish it back sometimes.
Romance stuff is nice. I enjoy a lot of different types but I always end up reading Yaoi. There is a different type of intimacy when it relates to men. I've read a lot of romance novels that have a relationship with a woman and it's a lot more kinder and softer. However it lacks the mystique and raw passion that yaoi provides.
Speaking of which I recommend yubisaki to renren from this season because it's just so fucking good
Also funny thing about the yaoi discourse apparently if you listen to yaoi ASMR in YouTube at 2x speed it sound like a couple of dudes fighting