I have to say that after going through BG3 and watching diverse individuals campaigns I think it's more that the game was kidnapped by the woke mob rather than being woke itself. Sure, you have zoophilia and a lot of gay stuff, but that's not something so out of the park for DND. I don't feel it takes itself seriously enough to be "woke" as it doesn't preach, but allows you to do whatever the fuck you want.I mean there are successful games that have a lot of 'woke' stuff. You asking for no bitching is nigh impossible, since there will be at least a few people pointing to a black guy in the background as 'woke'.
Baldur's Gate 3, super successful, also had plenty woke.
Kingdom Come Deliverance 2, successful afaik, had woke insertions.
Two off the top of my head.
Haven't played KCD2 though so that's on others to report.
Sweet hag experiencing MGS3 for the first time
Ume following her subathon with Twilight Princess
Beautiful brown star playing Peppered, another indievania