I think the most shocking is the speed that they fall into that hole, friends/colleagues don't even have time to take them away from that mindset and boom, you have an audio/video of yourself cooming, forever online in one way or another.
For example, last week Bao opened her Fansly, and yesterday she already had a stream featuring pet play and degradation, with a safe word and everything, now there's a compilation of her five orgasms, wailing like a feral beast. Imagine someone having that kind of ammunition against you, I'd go insane.