All of this could be summarized by: lurk moar.
The culture of lurking is at an all-time low, I see kids going head-first announcing all their dirt and autistic features from the top of their lungs all the time, and while I am usually the loud one in the room because of my culture, I learned from early age to lurk - hell, it took me 5 years to make my first post at 4chan.
Another thing that @Aquatic Novellite pointed out, it's really something that comes from age, most precisely from the emotional maturing process that takes time. It takes less for some, it took almost 10 years for me, but we can all get there as long as we're always thinking and reinforcing self-awareness by our peers.
As I said before, you're one of the few nijifags that wasn't taken to the ball explosion chamber immediately because you can be humorous and take banter, even when being retarded.
And about the second part, it's mostly being crafty/amusing/witty about it. RRat is someone with a huge network considering he can reply to Doki tweets yet he's a regular bringing information with no visible profit from it; Sanamite can't let go of his brown whore that moved on but he is loyal to the bit, which makes it interesting, and the list goes on.
I don't know how others perceive me but I'm just an autist cursed with curiosity, the only thing I do with the knowledge is hoe-checking, because I believe we should uproot bad people from the community, or at least from your favorite streamers' circles, as soon as possible.
Want a great example? Low Tier God. He is more racist, more xenophobic, more homophobic, more offensive than 99% of the users here, yet still holds extraordinary numbers on Twitter and Twitch (when he isn't banned). Why? Because he's funny as fuck, there is no other nigga clown as ludicrous as him, people wish they had his charisma, and he is so literate he could write books or songs if he wanted to, a literal wordsmith that uses it for banter and to push people's buttons.
