There is not perfect solution as this medium, an Internet 2.0 forum site, lacks a feature set that accommodates the modern internet user (GAY, lazy ect.). The best case scenario is unknowable, I don’t have solutions, but what has worked better than off site chat software of any sort, is the integrated on site chatbox. Yes, it too has caused gay problems as noted by Null, but weighed against the clique-y insular alternatives that require other software, registrations, and conformity breed problems much more quickly and in a breed much more annoying to deal with if you chose that route as exists now.
Ideally, niggas would be happy they have a forum to shitpost on that is singularly on topic, not wanting more. That’s unreasonable in the modern age. So you grow more topics and threads with rules duly suited for those topics and threads, but, the Rule says, when you go off site, shit gets gay, fast. That’s the totality of my complaint and issue. I’d like to IM users, I’d maybe even like a VC, but the risks involved to do any of that off site is bad. You don’t have TVA on discord you have discord flavored TVA, at best. That’s an important distinction.
This is fair. I wish I had a solution myself. In all honesty, the primary reason I've kept the Discord open is that it has given me immense access to connections I simply would not have otherwise. I don't consider it an inextricable part of TVA, but right now it functions as quite a valuable 'waystation' and a place for vtubers themselves to interact and connect. It poses a danger, absolutely. Perhaps even a danger that cannot be reasonably mitigated. But it's more than just a place to shoot the shit and mess about on.
Once we're off the cloud, I am planning to look into a site-based IM chat. We already have a few options there. But as I see it, the danger lies in divergent cultures. I act a lot more freely over IM than I do on this forum. I'm the same person on Discord as I am here, just the incentive structure behind my posts is different. I absolutely understand that instant messaging is much more impulsive and instinct-driven than posting on a forum. You can say a lot of things that make perfect sense in the emotional energy of the moment, but which look very strange out of context.
I remember back when KF still had strikethroughs for banned users visible. Pretty-much anytime I saw a 1k+ poster banned, I'd look at their profile and ask why. The answer was always the same; 'chat autism'. Issue is, the kind of people who'll sperg in chat hard enough to get banned will eventually have their autism tickled in the right way to get them to sperg out in a forum post as well. The context will just be different.
I really, really,
really want to be able to trust people. I want to be able to say stupid, irreverent, silly stuff that pops into my head without it being taken out of context and used to paint me in a negative light. I want to jump into a conversation and spend an hour rambling about nonsense that doesn't matter, because it's
fun. I don't want to have to constantly be looking over my shoulder for the next drama or autistic meltdown. Knowing, factually, that I don't have a choice in the matter and that sooner or later some idiot will take things too far and ruin it for everyone else is
not easy to deal with at times.
I wish I had a better, more coherent answer to your concerns than this, I really do. Perhaps I will discover one sometime soon, as I am thinking it over. It's just 7AM right now, and I got up at 8AM, so my brain is not exactly a problem-solving powerhouse right now. I'm not operating in a vacuum though; my moderators have raised similar points. They were the ones that pointed out I was being too flippant and should think about my response to you in context. I'm grateful for that. With their help I'm reasonably confident we can prevent any autistic blowouts for the moment. Then when the move is done and that massive amount of stress is off my shoulders, I can look into these issues more precisely.
Until then, all I ask for is that people not take shitposts and retarded in-jokes seriously. I took it too seriously as well at one point, and that led to issues. Now I'm trying to relax and let people express themselves. There's a balance to be struck, and I'm very much still in the process of finding it.