Maybe I'm just speaking for myself but I don't think I've ever really disliked Hime outside of playing up a bit and shit talking her for her semi-lefty opinions. I think most of us have come to accept that
@superduper is a challenged but worthy addition to the menhera connect and have really come to enjoy the antics. Even on /vt/ the bitos seem more concerned with fucking each other (sexual) than causing trouble. I think Hime's thing is she doesn't really seem to have a niche outside of being known as an enjoyer of incest games, she needs to find a "thing". Pippa is a conspiracy mold queen, Runie does really great themed streams, etc. Maybe that would help Hime find some direction in other areas, if she could figure out what type of vtuber she wants to be known as in general.