So not america?
e. She will not play geoguesser because of people that matter to her
e. She will not play geoguesser because of people that matter to her
It's up to the situation. If I'm a kid at a party, and everybody wins some kind of raffle except me, especially depending on the age of the child in question, that just sucks, and you might not learn anything if you're always losing and too focused on how unfair it is because kids don't always think critically. There'll be plenty of opportunities at school, church, etc. etc. where a parent/parental figure/family member doesn't control the winner for the child to learn that lesson. School fundraiser events, for instance, in mine they spun a wheel and chose a student at random to win money, game consoles, etc. That just sucked, nobody there cared who won or lost, but it wasn't personal and did teach a lesson to an extent.You shouldn't let them lose every time it's random chance, but you should let them lose sometimes. It's a good lesson that sometimes for no fault of your own you will lose or bad things will happen but you should have healthy ways of dealing with it. That and you should have some sense of what's random chance and what's within your control.
I think you're coloring it in a false light by saying everyone but the one kid wins, when in reality some win and some lose. Worse is you over focus on one event in a larger celebration, but don't consider that another lesson to be learned is that you shouldn't let one event in a day of many to color your view of things completely. You should learn early that you should enjoy the good and not let the bad completely consume you or you become a perpetual victim.It's up to the situation. If I'm a kid at a party, and everybody wins some kind of raffle except me, especially depending on the age of the child in question, that just sucks, and you might not learn anything if you're always losing and too focused on how unfair it is because kids don't always think critically. There'll be plenty of opportunities at school, church, etc. etc. where a parent/parental figure/family member doesn't control the winner for the child to learn that lesson. School fundraiser events, for instance, in mine they spun a wheel and chose a student at random to win money, game consoles, etc. That just sucked, nobody there cared who won or lost, but it wasn't personal and did teach a lesson to an extent.
I also think the behavior of the child following the situation is important to consider, yeah. I'm not saying flat-out to spoil them every time fate frowns on them, just that it takes a lot more than giving them a little joy when they learn bad lessons sometimes to raise them to not understand the concept of losing.
I think she has a point, but it's more likely to be the chinks making it happen and other governments just rolling with it because they can weaponise it against their people "for the public good".Ok now we're talking
Only once she starts talking about things he don't like
Yeah, I am focusing on the extreme because... that's what I'm trying to say, it will happen at least once in someone's life that a situation is completely unfair to them and they couldn't do anything about it, and they might be a child who can't internalize that.I think you're coloring it in a false light by saying everyone but the one kid wins, when in reality some win and some lose. Worse is you over focus on one event in a larger celebration, but don't consider that another lesson to be learned is that you shouldn't let one event in a day of many to color your view of things completely. You should learn early that you should enjoy the good and not let the bad completely consume you or you become a perpetual victim.
You can't live your entire life wrapped completely around the extremes.Yeah, I am focusing on the extreme because... that's what I'm trying to say, it will happen at least once in someone's life that a situation is completely unfair to them and they couldn't do anything about it, and they might be a child who can't internalize that.
Just as there are parents who are way too pampering, the opposite also exists where parents are way too "harsh reality" about it all or neglectful. You can't always impart lessons upon a child if they're just too Pippa-core to learn at that age. Gotta manage breeding resentment just as much as entitlement. Kids aren't going to be emotionally mature enough to learn lessons at the same times, either.
Learning harsh lessons is also better served in the teen years tbh.