I don't have any optimism that she'll ever try to turn herself around and better herself, but it would be nice to see. I'm an asshole and find entertainment in watching people do and say dumb shit, but unless a person has done some really heinous shit, I'd always be happier to see a person get better and redeem themselves than them continuing to be a lolcow/lolcow-like. While I can't always bring myself to do so, unless some heinous shit was involved, I try not to hold someone's past against them if they've proven to be a better person in the present. Unfortunately, this doesn't happen very often.Honestly I still feel bad for her. Girl is clearly mentally ill in some way and needs help, and her behavior is primarily self-destructive rather than harmful to others. She's not some pond-scum-type mess living in squalor and ruining every life they come across like your typical lolcow, she's just an unstable woman that desperately needs help as she makes every wrong decision. The only thing I can really say she's done that's something worth truly judging her for is the whole GFE thing, but that gets into your personal views on that kind of content. She's also likely not the best relationship partner, but to be frank I don't trust Mafu much either.
I can see why she'd have friends still sticking up for her or crying over her, but I can also understand why some of the other Holomems weren't exactly broken up over her termination.
Still, not exactly happy this got out. Sure, it's juicy, but she seemed to be doing better (that 4ch post wasn't wrong) and was hopefully on a much-needed upswing. No way is this going to help, lord knows the woman cannot mentally and emotionally handle shit like this.
I dunno, y'all, I wanna see her get better and bounce back, but the girl is her own worst enemy. Feels like she really needs some actual third party intervention. Not support like Kson had been giving her, but someone to step in and push her to get therapy and metaphorically slap some sense into her. But if she had a support system like that, she wouldn't be in this mess...
It's just sad, man... I can't even laugh, or get all hyped up for juicy drama. It's just rough to watch. If she were some some actively malicious bitch, sure, but she just seems like a troubled woman who can't get her shit together. I hope things get better for her, but that may be a pipe dream.
Cheating in a relationship, especially while stringing along the partner being cheated on, is a pretty rough line for me. I have always hated infidelity, so if this part is true, it's hard for me to keep a shred of sympathy for her. But even then, while highly unlikely, it's not completely impossible for her to eventually straighten the fuck up and work on bettering herself and becoming a better person. I won't write her off completely, but I'm not holding my breath. She has a lot of work to do, especially if these allegations are true. But, I agree that I would like to see things get better for her. However, that's all completely on her to do. Life and others have already been kind enough to a person like her. She needs to put in the work.
Unless that eventually happens, I'll continue to laugh at the shit shows she creates like other lolcows I do the same with, but like with other lolcows that aren't too far gone to me, I'll still have a tiny bit of hope that she'll turn herself around at some point. But again, I'm not holding my breath on that.