The later, to summarize what I understand went down:
- Long time viewer and whale of Shondo starts simping for another 2 view streamer
- Shondo gets jealous and let him know she doesn't like it
- He responds saying he is sorry and in his opinion leaves a message that's meant to say he is going to leave her fandom
- she interprets it as that he is sorry and wont do it again
- he cuts her off completely and goes to watch her new oshi instead of her.
- Shondo notices after her stream and has a mehera moment on twitter
- the guy show up on the 4chan thread to clarify what happened, people tell him to KYS while other tell him to fix it.
- he DM's her to apologize and she forgives him, he say he is scared everyone hates him now but she say to ignore them.
- Now her fans are pissed for one of 2 reason:
- The fact that the guy caused all of this by being an idiot
- the fact that only took a simple apology for her to forgive him, and that the "cheater" gets special treatment over the others.