The fact is, and it is a fact, AnyColor very much has Chinese companies with investments in it, over 25% of the company is owned by Chinese interests, and has a big Chinese branch. The EN side has a lot riding on its Chinese fans at this point, as well. As long as Kson is widely unpopular with bugmen overlords, which it seems like she still is, then Nijisanji is going to keep cockblocking her to ensure nothing shakes their foothold in the Chinese market.
Okay, let me try and frame my comment differently because I honestly did not intend to bait people and it seems people are focusing on the parts I'm possibly misremembering (I could've sworn she was bonked for the anniversary message she sent to Kson).
Is it true that Nijisanji could possibly, or even probably, have made it a T&C that their V-Tubers won't participate if Kson is invited? Absolutely yes.
Completely separate of this: Is it true that Coco/Kson has never interacted with a single one of the dozens upon dozens of people in the server during her 3 years as a V-Tuber? Yes.
Is it true that Kson does not follow a single Niji, VSPO, VEE, 774, or pro player currently in the server - most of whom are JP companies/individuals that don't have the same issues with her as Niji might? Yes.
As a result of this, is it likely that she wasn't invited to the server, or wasn't in the forefront of people's minds to invite, simply because no one knows her and she doesn't know them? Yes.
Does she come off as a self-important dramawhore for jumping at a chat member's comment to attack a company and narrowly avoid implicating other members, when Laplus has shown that you can literally just ask to join them and they'll at least give you a better idea of what's up? Yes.
She says 'If there's a big ARK server then I should definitely be a part of it' and it's like...no you shouldn't. You never networked with any of these people and there has never been a single indication that you wanted to, so it comes off as unreasonable that she'd just immediately say that Niji is the only reason these people could have possibly avoided inviting her.
It's her characterisation more than the content. It's very narcissistic.Coco was the ARK person, not Kson, and Kson isn't owed a place amongst a group of people who interact all the time based on Coco's reputation.