The tranny thing is weird to talk about because they really are victims, though not of the people they usually think. I see the situation basically like this:
Tom: I just realized that I'm actually a bird. I'm going to jump off a tall building to prove that I can fly.
Dick: You're not a bird, you're a human. If you do that you'll only experience pain, and possibly death.
Harry: You ARE a bird. If you feel that's what you are, then that's what you are and you SHOULD jump off a tall building to prove you can fly. Don't listen to Dick, he's only saying that because he hates you.
(Tom jumps off a tall building and, predictably, dies)
Harry: This is YOUR fault, Dick! If only you had accepted Tom for what he is!
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So I do see them as victims of the pushers and gaslighters who, for various reasons, try to feed their delusions instead of correcting them, and to that extent they have my pity. But that doesn't make it ok for them to protect their delusions by lashing out at people like Pikamee, Silvervale, and JK Rowling. To the extent they do THAT, they are in the wrong and should be criticized for it.