Playing devil's advocate here, but I get why she's so down on the OffKai reaction. She's a shut-in who finally picked up the energy to leave the house, probably had the best few days of her life hanging out with her friends, then immediately gets back to people demanding she disavows everything and gets involved in an internet slapfight over it. It's an emotional rollercoaster and the drama is obviously the lowest part of it.
Sure, she should've just given a "no comment" or "I don't want to talk about the drama" rather than downplaying it, but she's a woman and they do shit like that.