that bit about her collabs is just her telling people not to be assholes, she used to be very anal about being respectful of people she hung with. She did use to hang out with dudes a lot though but those guys always gave me predditor vibes, her bff for a while was a TTS "girl" that did a lot of furry art to pay the bills. The dude who shilled moe could give more info on her, I don't have much info of her when she moved to twitch.
In general moe is quite creative and very autistic about her content, so if you like someone who puts in the work for to keep things fresh she might be your gal.